Sunday, July 17, 2011

decisions.....

when at the crossroads of life....
it's always hard trying to make a RIGHT decision!
no matter how badly you wish for it to happen to you....
when it's finally here,
there's always other factors that pop up....
making you ponder on your "wish" once again....
SHOULD I?? or SHOULD I NOT??
learning from others' experiences is not a bad thing;
but will the same occurrences happened on another???
with the difference of mindset of one!
struggles and indecisiveness would set in for sure!!
regardless how affirmative one can be.....
For me....(not a very good example though)
to end all struggles and indecisiveness caused/due from others
at all times of major milestones decision makings in life....
it all falls back to asking myself why you wanted it at first....
putting aside all other considerations, cons and pros....
if that's what you really wanted....
JUST GO FOR IT!!!
it doesn't matter it's gonna turn out good or bad....
the process or journey would be hard and tiring....
BITE ON & SUCK IT UP!!!
it's important that you did what you wanted....
been though it the hard way or not....
you grow and gain the life experiences....
it's all about not regretting it....
nor harping on it later in life~
which actually sucks big time....
cos you can never go back in time!
DO the RIGHT thing at the RIGHT time~
Opportunity usually knocks ONCE!
AND one thing i learnt -
*When you gain something, you lose something too*
there's always a balance in life....
life's never really perfect for one yet....
it's how one appreciates it!

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